August 14, 2019

This is the Best Way to Talk to Your Boss About an Extra Work Assignment Interfering With Your Main Job

August 14, 2019/ Dory Wilson

Dear Office Mom,

I have been working as an administrative assistant since February at my current company. I have proven time and time again that I am smart and deserving of this job to my manager. Recently, one of the project managers (who was the previous administrative assistant) has volunteered for me to work on something for her project while I still have another workload to do for the job I was hired for.

August 14, 2019

How to Tell Your Boss You Don't Want to Work for Her Anymore

August 14, 2019/ Dory Wilson

Dear Office Mom,

I plan to apply for a job in the same department but different office than my current job. My supervisor of two years, unfortunately, takes these types of things very personally. Due to the small-town nature of the area, I am confident she will find out I applied for the job…

July 02, 2019

This Is the Way to Tell Your Boss About a Tardy, Incompetent Co-Worker

July 02, 2019/ Dory Wilson

Dear Office Mom,

My workplace is open until 1 a.m. most nights. Because of this, my supervisor, Lisa and one of my coworkers, Jane, never cross paths, because Lisa works days. Jane has a day job and usually makes it to work on time. About a year ago she asked to come in at later… ~ Snitch

June 30, 2019

How to Choose a College Major When You Are Confused and Don't Know What to Do

June 30, 2019/ Dory Wilson

Dear Office Mom,

When should I get a bachelors of business instead of pursuing a more technical degree first and getting into business later (i.e. graduate level, or just through promotion)? I have some business experience, but limited technical experience. ~ Studious

June 30, 2019

If You Have a Co-Worker Who Thinks He is Your Boss These Tips Will Help

June 30, 2019/ Dory Wilson

Dear YOM,

I am the Office Manager in a small office with an owner and a new GM. All of us work well together with minimal friction. However, one young man has started causing issues with the rest of the team. He is trying to dictate our roles and responsibilities, tell us how to do our jobs, and approaching clients inappropriately….~Irked

June 30, 2019

When Your Work Friend Becomes Your New Boss, It Can Complicates Things on the Job

June 30, 2019/ Dory Wilson

Dear Office Mom,

I have an awkward situation at work. I went to lunch with this female coworker a few times in the past, and we became friends and even connected on Facebook. She got me a birthday gift and gave me other little things. I ended up getting her something afterward to repay the favor. However, recently, she was promoted and is now my supervisor. My other co-workers and I think it was an unfair promotion because she has been here less than a year…

June 30, 2019

No, You Don't Have to Attend Lame Work Events on Your Own Time

June 30, 2019/ Dory Wilson

Dear Office Mom,

My manager asked our team if anyone was going to the full department holiday Potluck that starts at 4:30 pm tomorrow. Most said they weren’t sure but were thinking about it. She continues to mention that we needed to make sure to let her know if we do so that we can adjust our hours. All of us looked a little confused by that statement. She said if we wanted to attend, then we would need to come in 30 minutes early and if we came in at our regular time and attended the event, then we would need to submit PTO… ~ Kari

June 23, 2019

How to Handle an Over Zealous Co-Worker When You Start a New Job

June 23, 2019/ Dory Wilson

Dear YOM,

I recently made a career change, and two weeks ago, I started a new job that had been vacant for a year. A few days later, Jessica resigned her position, having held my job previously. Jessica has been at the office nearly every day since and is continually involved in my work…

June 23, 2019

How to Adjust to a New Work Environment and Change the Perception That You're Unapproachable

June 23, 2019/ Dory Wilson

Dear Office Mom,

I recently moved halfway across the country for a job at a small family-owned business in a primarily male-dominated industry. I like my job, I like the work, and the people are nice. The problem is my peers…~ Lindsey

June 23, 2019

When People at Work Spread Rumors and Don't Like You, There is Usually a Reason

June 23, 2019/ Dory Wilson

Dear Office Mom,

I'm in my mid-forties and moved to another state to be around my family. I never had difficulty finding a job, but the general consensus in interviews seems to be that I'm an attractive female that would either be a distraction to others or they wouldn't want to work for me… ~Diane

June 23, 2019

How to Adjust After a Company Merger and You Don't Like Your New Role

June 23, 2019/ Dory Wilson

Recently my company merged with another. We all got to keep "our jobs" but our job titles were changed. At first we were given the impression we'd be doing the same jobs under different titles, but I was switched to another role, of which I have no direct experience and I’m not comfortable and find it emotionally distressing…

June 23, 2019

How You Can Stay Connected When You Work from Home

June 23, 2019/ Dory Wilson

YOM,

With so many women choosing to work from home or start their own business- how would you recommend staying connected but not being obsessed with only work? Co-working is not preferred as I feel it doesn't make me any more productive or creative. ~ Anon Y-mous